This. I had a catch up with a friend and a lot of it was her thinking I hadOfficial Gump For President I Just Felt Like Running Shirt about several life events because she had posted on Facebook. I still wouldn’t have if it didn’t come up off-handed (such as – her going on a new date being the indication that the last relationship ended). Don’t make a big deal of it, but if they don’t know then they also won’t make a special effort to tell you things they think that you already know. When someone who you think is your best friend talks about their best friend, just keep going. People can have more than one best friend.
They might have their best friend that’s also their oldest friend, the best friend thatOfficial Gump For President I Just Felt Like Running Shirt shares all their same opinions, the best friend that gives really good advice, etc. Friendship isn’t like a relationship – people can have as many best friends as they want! This. My friend circle consists of like 8 guys that I’d be hard-pressed to choose from a single best friend. But I’m very close to all of them. At different points in my life I could choose who was my best friend at the time, but circumstances change and who I ended up hanging out with the most changed. There’s a couple of guys in the group that are best friends together no doubt, always have been, but they have more history. Nobody feels excluded because of their bond, or anyone else.
Keep it up, sometimes it’s nice to just have people around. I stopped being the host ofOfficial Gump For President I Just Felt Like Running Shirt once. I started feeling used for being the place where people could go get drunk. It sucks. I’m asking myself, “If I weren’t here, would I be missed? Would anyone notice?” Everyone’s always talking to someone else. They never have time for me. And when they do, I’m too much of a goddamn introvert to say much more than a few sentences. There’s no one to pick me up when I fall (metaphorically). I have to pick myself up. I have to cry on my own shoulder. Yeah, it fuckin sucks.